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by Webwanderer
Sat May 25, 2019 2:02 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Intrusive Thoughts
Replies: 1
Views: 53

Re: Intrusive Thoughts

I would suggest that the problem is not so much with the thoughts of gore, but with the self-judgment that seems to be linked to them. You mention a sense of contraction and tension that follows them. Therein lies the result of judgment. I suggest you begin to look at those unwanted thoughts that ar...
by Webwanderer
Tue May 21, 2019 9:08 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: do we die? how do you understand it?
Replies: 5
Views: 90

Re: do we die? how do you understand it?

How would the strength of the accumulated beliefs of the self-aware consciousness affect the form of the transference to another dimension of existence? Take for example, if one has a strong belief in certain Christian teachings relating to Heaven and Hell. When that one dies he/she may find their ...
by Webwanderer
Sun May 19, 2019 5:51 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: do we die? how do you understand it?
Replies: 5
Views: 90

Re: do we die? how do you understand it?

Don't we indeed die in the sense that our individual "I am" dissolves into the universal "I am"? Doesn't that constitute death, for an individual human being? My take is that death has several components in its unfolding. The first component is of the physical form no longer being able to support a...
by Webwanderer
Sun May 19, 2019 2:06 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

Well done. It's a good beginning and a very important one. Get emotional about it while at the same time relaxing into it. Feel a knowingness of new understanding. Celebrate a little and be at peace with it at the same time. Feel a deep sense of appreciation. This will help anchor it in your conscio...
by Webwanderer
Sat May 18, 2019 1:33 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

Okay, so make a plan. What are you going to do next? If you meditate and imagine the feeling of how great it would be to have fun and be totally disinterested in the old programing, when will you start? This is where you set a schedule and begin creating new habits of behavior and thought. Do a 15 m...
by Webwanderer
Fri May 17, 2019 7:31 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

SamiT, I'm beginning to wonder if you're reading my posts or maybe just skimming them. How could you ask such a question that was just covered so thoroughly? Here's what I would like you to do: Rewrite my last post in your own words what you think I meant. Cover each paragraph. Don't ask questions. ...
by Webwanderer
Fri May 17, 2019 2:29 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

please can you expand a bit more on this....... “Know you can create new ways of thinking of your 'self'. It's simply the way of growth.” Sure, and a very good question. 'Self' is who and what you are as a conscious being without all the identifiers. It is 'I Am' - free of any limiting beliefs - an...
by Webwanderer
Thu May 16, 2019 11:51 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

Remember, your ego is your own creation. You give it its strength by the arguments you make that it is strong. You give it substance by the qualities you define as self. Be dismissive of limiting identifications. Treat them with disinterest. Disinterest cuts off a belief's energy. It then dies of ne...
by Webwanderer
Thu May 16, 2019 9:19 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

I think maybe what you don't know is how to muster the energy to refocus your thinking. You know what needs to be done. Joe Dispenza is a great resource in how to change this for you. He has several videos available on YouTube besides the one I linked above. Follow his instructions. Immerse yourself...
by Webwanderer
Thu May 16, 2019 2:39 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: CANNOT cope with this fear
Replies: 16
Views: 223

Re: CANNOT cope with this fear

These short videos will help you understand what's happening with you:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7KQsS2kLM4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIKFEkO3Qss

WW
by Webwanderer
Mon May 13, 2019 4:08 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Is the ego a necessary process of adulthood and maturity
Replies: 7
Views: 483

Re: Is the ego a necessary process of adulthood and maturity

jtightlips21 wrote:
Mon May 13, 2019 2:48 am
I have begun to wonder if the ego is used to suppress the painbody
How so?
by Webwanderer
Sat May 11, 2019 3:16 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Consciousness
Replies: 18
Views: 216

Re: Consciousness

I encourage you to laugh - often. Learn to make light of your own your own fears as just curious foibles in these matters that trouble you. Be dismissive of them. (It's interesting how words can have duel meanings. Think about 'make light'. One, making light through humor lifts the heaviness of our ...
by Webwanderer
Sat May 11, 2019 2:42 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Consciousness
Replies: 18
Views: 216

Re: Consciousness

I don’t know why I have the fear of a heart attack, nothing was wrong with my heart. I’m not scared of dying i don’t think , apart from the fear of leaving my daughter alone. I think it’s more a feeling of being out of control of my body, These underlined areas are worth further exploration. See if...
by Webwanderer
Fri May 10, 2019 11:03 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Consciousness
Replies: 18
Views: 216

Re: Consciousness

What are you thoughts about dying? What concerns you about it? Is it death that concerns you, or is it dying? There is a distinct difference. Go into detail.

WW
by Webwanderer
Fri May 10, 2019 8:57 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Consciousness
Replies: 18
Views: 216

Re: Consciousness

The pull of my ego is extremely strong I am really struggling to stay present and watch the fearful thoughts it drags me along like a wild river. I suggest you stop the struggle. It's likely working against you. If you are 'struggling', you're likely seeing failure in consistently being drawn back ...