I have found (though I make no claim to being awakened or enlightened ) that it is much easier for me to give a direct quality No, and a quality Yes, for that matter, too.
Hi Imago - I realized recently that much of how we operate is from the foundation of memories (both good and traumatic) formed over time. We have these memories (words and pictures) that stick with us, and they don't need to. The reason they stick is because there is a bodily sensation attached to t...
Respect for personal boundaries is the key to healthy relationships; that and compromise. ;-) If you don't want to share your clothes, you certainly don't have to. Or if there are certain favorite items that are yours exclusively, there is no meanness in telling your partner they are off limits. If ...
Hi Cavalerra, and welcome to the forum. When I feel that way, it's always an indication that there's something about Me that I see in the other that's the issue, for we only see others through our own filter, and more often than not, they are mirroring us for us in some way. Rather than fighting or ...
The forum went down yesterday because Eric didn't have the funds to pay the bill. He just paid for a month because that's all he could afford.. There are many people who use the forum almost every day, and I hope you will consider making a small donation, as it really isn't fair that Eric be shoulde...
There was a reason I'd asked for donations... If anyone would like to donate to help the forum stay online, we'd appreciate it. Eric shouldn't have to pay for it all by himself. There are many people who use the forum every day, and we'd hope they' will step up and make a small donation, as Eric was...
Hi Everyone - It's time for a friendly reminder that Eric, the owner and administrator of this forum, does it all on his own, and has to pay the bills when they come due, which is right about NOW. :D We've kept it going strong since 2004, and hope to continue providing a place where we can share our...