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by Melkmeisje
Mon Jun 26, 2017 5:29 am
Forum: Awakening / Spiritual Enlightenment / Truth-Realization
Topic: Self-realization and work in development aid
Replies: 3
Views: 881

Self-realization and work in development aid

Hi everybody, It has been a while since I posted here, but I feel I'm on a crossroad and I would love to have some guidance on this topic... As long as I can remember, I always wanted to help 'poor' people in development countries. As a child, I was planning to become a famous actress so that I coul...
by Melkmeisje
Mon Mar 16, 2015 6:44 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Trusting life
Replies: 2
Views: 679

Trusting life

Hi everybody, A few months ago, I wrote a topic about my (long-distance) relationship. After 10 long months of not seeing each other at all, my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, but I felt scared about letting him go. I got some really great advice from you about letting go and accepting the sit...
by Melkmeisje
Sat Jan 18, 2014 11:28 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Hi Melkmeisje, I can tell you that I know how you feel... I watched the vídeo and I also would like to know if we choose or recognize love. As Mooji explains, the true love should be recognized and not choosed. How to know if we are recognizing the love or choosing to love someone? Thank you for yo...
by Melkmeisje
Sat Jan 18, 2014 7:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Thank you so much for your wonderful replies :) Yesterday, we ended our relationship, and although there is sadness inside me, at the same time I feel calm about it. I noticed that in the last few weeks, I was trying to hold on to him, convincing him to give it another try. However, in the last few ...
by Melkmeisje
Thu Jan 16, 2014 10:32 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

I just keep writing here, although I'm not sure if somebody will still read this, but that's oke :) I more and more have the feeling that I have to let go of this, because I feel that I"m currently trying too much to make it work, while I can notice that he wants to let go of it. Although there is a...
by Melkmeisje
Wed Jan 15, 2014 12:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

One last thing I just realized very clearly: I know that when I feel fear and pain about this situation, it is because I'm in the past or thinking about the future. When I think about the memories we have, and all the things we felt and said to each other, something inside me is hurting, because thi...
by Melkmeisje
Wed Jan 15, 2014 12:04 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Thank you so much for your wonderful post. I feel so grateful that I can post here and that people respond to me from a level of presence. I feel this is really important at this moment. You are pointing things out to me that probably I already know deep down inside of me, but I'm too afraid to reco...
by Melkmeisje
Wed Jan 15, 2014 1:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

This is probably my ego speaking right now :) but there is something that keeps bothering me: What I'm afraid of right now, is that I will never again feel that strong connection with somebody again, since I (my ego) believes that this probably happens only once in your life. And there is also the n...
by Melkmeisje
Tue Jan 14, 2014 7:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

I just talked to this person through Skype, and he told me that he is starting to feel more for his friend and that he is not sure whether or not I should still come to see him. He is afraid that he will get very confused when we see each other again and that he won't know what decision to make. I t...
by Melkmeisje
Tue Jan 14, 2014 2:24 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Thank you so much for all of your insights :) And I'm sorry for responding so late, I didn't realize more people had responded to my post. I'm not sure if I understand everything that has been said, but I'll try to explain how I perceive it. I'm aware there is a possibility that it is my ego who is ...
by Melkmeisje
Sun Jan 12, 2014 1:27 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Re: Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Hi Starting, Thank you so much for your answer :) You're right, I should not to have any expectations at forehand, and I'm trying to let go of them. I also am very aware that my happiness does not depend on the love of another person, and even though the situation is very insecure at this moment (wh...
by Melkmeisje
Fri Jan 10, 2014 8:14 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Does true love exist, and will it persist?
Replies: 22
Views: 4731

Does true love exist, and will it persist?

Hello everybody :) When I wrote my post yesterday, I think I was mainly in my mind, which made my post too long and a little chaotic. I would like to rewrite it in order to describe only the essence of my post of yesterday :) My question is, does true love between two people exist, in the form of a ...
by Melkmeisje
Tue Oct 22, 2013 11:32 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Self-image and social situations
Replies: 9
Views: 1354

Re: Self-image and social situations

I think you have more insight into this problem then you were giving yourself credit for...reread your last post a few times. When in the grip of the ego you have no insight into what is happening, but you do! So, its losing its grip on you, this may make the thoughts and feelings worse for awhile ...
by Melkmeisje
Tue Oct 22, 2013 5:05 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Self-image and social situations
Replies: 9
Views: 1354

Re: Self-image and social situations

Thank you for your reply, azoo :) I know it is still a story somehow, that I'm still creating duality in myself, but I find it difficult not to think like this. Sometimes I just feel that my mind is just trying to create any confusion, any blur, in order to prevent me to see the truth. When I'm in t...
by Melkmeisje
Tue Oct 22, 2013 2:30 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Self-image and social situations
Replies: 9
Views: 1354

Re: Self-image and social situations

Why not forget about this entirely? It is nothing anyway. Don't fall into the trap of believing YOU are tense and insecure when this is happening. That's a story the mind creates so that It can "help you" you to try and "solve" this. Thank you so much for all your replies. I'm not sure if I'm doing...