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by far_eastofwest
Fri Oct 16, 2015 1:27 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: he wants to live with me, plz give me suggestions
Replies: 45
Views: 5070

Re: he wants to live with me, plz give me suggestions

Hi all, haven't been here for a yearish. Haven't checked some of my email accounts for six months.... lol .... Imagio.... a few things stand out (probably missed something as i didn't read it all, but i remember you). You want 'space, own time etc' an alos 'nice love/man". These may appear to be con...
by far_eastofwest
Tue Feb 17, 2015 11:34 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Is everyone here anxious?
Replies: 22
Views: 2352

Re: Is everyone here anxious?

i dont and haven't had anxiety
http://www.therapytoday.net/article/show/4644/

this might be of interest
by far_eastofwest
Thu Feb 12, 2015 1:48 am
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: Being deceived and feeling awful/uncomfortable
Replies: 9
Views: 1934

Re: Being deceived and feeling awful/uncomfortable

Follow up all plans.... don't depend on just the one. My daughter went through similar situation and finally after quite a few tears and people who were either arrogant or rude or simply dismissed her on first impression or jobs that actually don't pay anything... has ended up now with a really good...
by far_eastofwest
Tue Nov 04, 2014 1:23 am
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: 'Doing' vs 'Being' ?
Replies: 89
Views: 10997

Re: 'Doing' vs 'Being' ?

That is a great line, used so often by all and sundry self help/teachers etc etc.... sounds fantastic: "Remember that I am not responsible for others emotional reactions ... each one is fully responsible for his own emotions ..." Fact that is is actually illogical and doesn't work in 'real life' doe...
by far_eastofwest
Sat Sep 27, 2014 1:08 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Romance and the Ego
Replies: 87
Views: 12605

Re: Romance and the Ego

Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul there is no such thing as separation.

~ Rumi
by far_eastofwest
Sat Sep 27, 2014 12:57 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: 7 questions
Replies: 24
Views: 2080

Re: 7 questions

1. What is your primary identity? Mother 2. Are you a person/body? Body 3. Is the world real? VEry 4. Is there anything to do? Raise children read sleep eat help things grow feed those that cannot feed themselves 5. How would you define Life in a word? Opportunity 6. What is your best analogy for Li...
by far_eastofwest
Sat Sep 13, 2014 2:42 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: love your neighbor as yourself...??
Replies: 9
Views: 988

Re: love your neighbor as yourself...??

Well it all depends on whom you are giving your affection to. If its kids, well of course it is given freely and there is no expectation of 'return'. (though generally there is 'return' but its not a necessary part of the deal) With adults, its a case of being a little choosy, like Jesus said "don't...
by far_eastofwest
Sun Sep 07, 2014 1:52 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i don't want a true relationship nor sexual adventures
Replies: 5
Views: 1265

Re: i don't want a true relationship nor sexual adventures

Sounds like you've kinda worked it out. But i feel deep inside of my heart that i simply haven't found the right person for me, that's all. Meanwhile i prefer being free and a bit silly than being content with someone i don't like much. No doubt you will meet someone compatable when you are least ex...
by far_eastofwest
Sun Sep 07, 2014 12:48 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: i don't want a true relationship nor sexual adventures
Replies: 5
Views: 1265

Re: i don't want a true relationship nor sexual adventures

You have a child and had a long term relationship, that hardly makes you 'impossible' or that your attempts with guys are disaterous. Maybe you just haven't found the right guy for you. I done dating and found i felt oppressed, bored and just had to be polite to hang around long enough. This was NOT...
by far_eastofwest
Tue Sep 02, 2014 11:53 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: sexuality
Replies: 10
Views: 1662

Re: sexuality

Very unusual, fancy that, men pleasing women sexually, complete strangers. Doesn't sound so 'amazing' when you think prostitutes and housewives have been 'pleasing men' and not getting anything in return sexually for millenium. The shock factor is Men Pleasing Women without having anything received ...
by far_eastofwest
Tue Sep 02, 2014 3:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: I find someone interesting, plz give me a suggestion
Replies: 14
Views: 1993

Re: I find someone interesting, plz give me a suggestion

This is a simple one. Define what freedoms you require. Mine for example are freedom to spend time with my kids to have my pets, play tetris, go horseriding when i wish to go out once a year with a guy friend who visits from out of town (no flirting lol) to be able to sell stuff on ebay, renovate th...
by far_eastofwest
Tue Sep 02, 2014 1:17 pm
Forum: Awakening / Spiritual Enlightenment / Truth-Realization
Topic: I am doing better now & stopped searching for enlightenment
Replies: 4
Views: 1221

Re: I am doing better now & stopped searching for enlightenm

Sounds good, I like in the first bit: accepting exactly What Is and then creating what you want when and where you can its the combo.... accepting what is (which et stresses) and THEN creating what you want so its a win win if you don't manage (this time, next time or ever) to create what you want.....
by far_eastofwest
Sat Aug 30, 2014 1:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Is divorce ever justified to awakend individuals?
Replies: 4
Views: 1235

Re: Is divorce ever justified to awakend individuals?

It doesn't really matter what ET has to say if its not working for you. Your wife has made a clear request "stop reading garbage and start loving her' So why not? Firstly calling something you are reading 'garbage' is a judgement and not a logical one. Fact she sees it as garbage is, that it isn't m...
by far_eastofwest
Sun Aug 17, 2014 12:08 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men
Replies: 38
Views: 4676

Re: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men

I think that the questions are an issue due to how you interpret the reason the other person is asking. Ie: I ask you 'what time did you get up this morning" I may be wondering whether to offer you some breakfast or just be making friendly chat (may lead up to 'did you see the sunrise, it was great"...
by far_eastofwest
Sun Aug 17, 2014 10:07 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Open relationships
Replies: 78
Views: 7159

Re: Open relationships

Well, my opinion only, if you go for having sex with different people than your primary partner (the one that shares the bills with you) then you may well get the pain and confusion. As for hot sex.... well thats easy, just buy a nice long wig and a sailor moon outfit and see how that works............