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by joti26
Sun Jan 22, 2012 2:08 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: need help, inner body
Replies: 13
Views: 1263

Re: need help, inner body

I am kind of with you on this one lax, don't think being a guy has anything to do with it, last time I looked I was a woman! I have found this difficult too, one of my problems is stopping thinking 'foot' 'calf' 'hands' etc and feel nothing, then I become aware of the thinking and trying not to thin...
by joti26
Fri Jan 20, 2012 9:17 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Finding being in the Now difficult with this hanging over me
Replies: 4
Views: 447

Re: Finding being in the Now difficult with this hanging ove

Thank you, thank you, thank you. :) Having been without any relationship for a long long time and not having been in a situation quite like this it had thrown me off somewhat. I have grown up believing I must always put others first and as a result take on the responsibility of others problems witho...
by joti26
Fri Jan 20, 2012 12:20 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Finding being in the Now difficult with this hanging over me
Replies: 4
Views: 447

Finding being in the Now difficult with this hanging over me

I am having a real problem at the moment with being in the Now. I refer to my previous post when I thought I had solved a relationship problem. I dealt with it (or so I thought) and explained clearly why I couldn't continue with the relationship, as I could not deal the issues he had. That part was ...
by joti26
Sun Jan 15, 2012 2:09 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Personality work - understanding to remove blockages
Replies: 9
Views: 2024

Re: Personality work - understanding to remove blockages

Interesting post and replies. I completely understand where you are coming from as those beliefs feel like the lettering running through a stick of seaside rock, etched solidly within your very core. As I read yours and subsequent posts I had a sudden realisation regarding my own. I have one I find ...
by joti26
Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:21 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: A new set of challenges
Replies: 3
Views: 429

Re: A new set of challenges

Thank you Webwanderer, you are right. Integrity has always been important to me although prior to reading Tolle I would have really struggled with this. I still have a way to go but I know I have done the right thing for both of us. I have learnt a great deal from this too. Although I have been pret...
by joti26
Sat Jan 14, 2012 2:10 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: A new set of challenges
Replies: 3
Views: 429

Re: A new set of challenges

I have found the answer having worked through it, my own pain body was feelings of guilt and responsibility, trying to please and fear of being wrong. Having worked through this he pushed me to choose being together or be apart. I chose apart, my true self knows that if this continued not only would...
by joti26
Thu Jan 12, 2012 2:15 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: A new set of challenges
Replies: 3
Views: 429

A new set of challenges

I have recently had a huge challenge dealing with an others ego and pain body now I am aware of it. An ex from 30 years ago contacted me wanting to see me again. He said he had never stopped loving me and we started seeing each other, I soon saw how damaged he had allowed himself to become and the p...
by joti26
Thu Jan 12, 2012 1:43 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Built up a huge ego by trying to be
Replies: 19
Views: 2195

Re: Built up a huge ego by trying to be

I completely understand what you are saying here as I found myself in the same place when I first read Tolle. Equally found it really difficult to see so many ego's and pain bodies in others around me. I still have a lot of un answered questions as I am new to this. What I am finding though is that ...
by joti26
Thu Jan 12, 2012 12:47 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Glad I found you, hello all : )
Replies: 2
Views: 840

Glad I found you, hello all : )

Hello all, I had been looking longingly at joining Eckhart TV since I discovered him a few months ago, especially wanting to find a forum but alas my finances will not allow this so I am delighted that I found this forum instead. My horse was how I found out about Tolle, my childhood dream of having...