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by Jayakanth
Fri Aug 30, 2013 4:52 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

Regarding my visualization and what happened, I would like to highlight a personal story of mine. There was a visualization of mine that i had manifested 90 percent when i was teen. I was really into LOA previously. For those of you who have used it, I would like to know how you made it work well in...
by Jayakanth
Fri Aug 30, 2013 4:37 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

Hmm what i do is that i just let the thoughts arise in me by replaying them in my mind and just stay in non-judgemental awareness of not doing anything to them. Emotions arise but stay at them and they get transmuted. I think there are a lot of things that we are not conscious of but u need to be ho...
by Jayakanth
Fri Aug 30, 2013 10:34 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

Hmm my problems that i have identified. The need to prove myself to viand others. ( If i do this for someone, than getting a galfren is not for me, but for others and ill be foreer at the mercy of my environment. ) Having a big ego about getting many gals ( I know that the false high I get from get...
by Jayakanth
Wed Aug 28, 2013 8:42 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

i let this problems play out in my mind with their emotions and just sit there. It slowly dies off after a while. But its an ongoing process as you said. Just purely meditating alone doesent necessariy get to these shadows. I decided to work on them with conscious awareness. Feels better though. Als...
by Jayakanth
Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:17 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

They say honesty must start from urself. So yeah.. Other than this, Im confident enough. I somehow think that its doing pick up that has screwd my vibe a bit. A lot of gals say that they dont know me well enough, even the gal in this post. Im thinking to myself, " Why are not gals revealing themsel...
by Jayakanth
Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:00 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

Im very frustrated that girls tell me that they dont know me that well. Intellectually, i think im not giving them enough attention and not making them the spotlight when im out with them. Internally, why is it that I'm not interested in them? Why am i interested in myself more? About what she is th...
by Jayakanth
Tue Aug 27, 2013 5:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Re: Need Advice on girls

I want a girlfriend, at the same time I want to attract sexual experiences into my life. What should i do? I appreciate advice Options: 1. Spend some money on a professional. At least you will both be in agreement on why you are there. 2. Consider paying attention to all those red flags: "i feel in...
by Jayakanth
Mon Aug 26, 2013 7:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Need Advice on girls
Replies: 23
Views: 2674

Need Advice on girls

Hi. Im gonna talk first on a visualizaton i did and what happened after that. I wanted to manifest a relationship in my life. I asked for an intimate relatiynship. So one day, im out with this gal in the park near the beach just like i visualised. I see a plane flying in the distance. It was in the ...
by Jayakanth
Mon Aug 12, 2013 7:32 am
Forum: Recommended Links
Topic: AMAZING SITE : calmdownmind.com
Replies: 0
Views: 1114

AMAZING SITE : calmdownmind.com

This site really cleared up many things for me. It was more informative, clear and instruntional for me than many other sources.
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by Jayakanth
Mon Aug 12, 2013 7:23 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.
Replies: 25
Views: 4789

Re: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.

"I feel needy and get hurt when rejected". This is not a 'spiritual' problem but a problem that most people go through when they are exploring relationships in their teenage years. Rejection is pain btw, so don't know why you are saying there is no pain. If you turn it into a spiritual quest you ig...
by Jayakanth
Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:34 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Why do I fear loss?
Replies: 17
Views: 2681

Re: Why do I fear loss?

I have been moving closer to my fears. Anxiety arises. My body feels uneasy and heavy. But yet, i know that its part of the process. I feel myself breathing a bit more heavily. This is an excerpt of an interview with Ken Wilbur. I found this shadow work thing quie interesting. Awareness alone does n...
by Jayakanth
Mon Jun 10, 2013 5:46 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Why do I fear loss?
Replies: 17
Views: 2681

Re: Why do I fear loss?

Im always searching for some kind of ansewer. How do i get rid of this fear, that fear. Too afraid to go on my own. Doubting whether what im doing is right. Looking for a result. Characteristics of a petty mind. Underneath the reason is simple : you do not know who you are. This loss you fear is de...
by Jayakanth
Sun Jun 09, 2013 9:36 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Why do I fear loss?
Replies: 17
Views: 2681

Re: Why do I fear loss?

Im always searching for some kind of ansewer. How do i get rid of this fear, that fear. Too afraid to go on my own. Doubting whether what im doing is right. Looking for a result. Characteristics of a petty mind. The word "doubt" triggered a memory I have of an excellent book mentioned already here ...
by Jayakanth
Sun Jun 09, 2013 9:07 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Why do I fear loss?
Replies: 17
Views: 2681

Re: Why do I fear loss?

I fear the fear. Fear of it arising again. Fear of not knowing when these thoughts will vanish. Exactly! I know this fear well. Mine went away by using John Sherman's looking technique. It's very simple and need not interfere with other practices and pursuits. But, ah!, the relief! What is the name...
by Jayakanth
Sat Jun 08, 2013 6:09 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Why do I fear loss?
Replies: 17
Views: 2681

Re: Why do I fear loss?

Im always searching for some kind of ansewer. How do i get rid of this fear, that fear. Too afraid to go on my own. Doubting whether what im doing is right. Looking for a result. Characteristics of a petty mind.