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by mirta
Sun Jul 30, 2017 10:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Passive agressive behaviour
Replies: 0
Views: 814

Passive agressive behaviour

Dear all, I have been in a relationship with a man for 13 years. We both work on becoming more and more conscious. We both have become aware of something new that is really disturbing and limiting in our relationship. Sth which has been there for a long time but we now want to work with. This is the...
by mirta
Thu Apr 14, 2016 3:44 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: My vader died
Replies: 5
Views: 840

Re: My vader died

Thanks you very much to all of you.
by mirta
Mon Apr 11, 2016 2:26 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: My vader died
Replies: 5
Views: 840

My vader died

My vader died past sunday. When i was a child I suffered a lot because of him. He used to beat my mum. He was really violent. Sometimes, i was afraid of making noise moving a chair because he would be angry and beat my mother and me. It was a way of him to relieve tension. At the same time, when he ...
by mirta
Sun Jan 26, 2014 9:31 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: how to deal with painbody in relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 668

Re: how to deal with painbody in relationship

Hi: Here my answers: When you mentioned that you don't do anything wrong - you just talk about something that happened in your day - was/is the 'something', something that made you feel good, something unrelated to the relationship making you feel good about yourself? yeah, sth at my work, sth I lik...
by mirta
Sun Jan 26, 2014 8:51 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: how to deal with painbody in relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 668

Re: how to deal with painbody in relationship

I guess I am afraid that if I break... it´s over...that he is not strong enough. But, at the same time I see the fear of me feeling afraid of hurt or afraid of being left/rejected if a express my feelings. But everytime when I broke in tears, he felt free he said, he felt sth went free in him... So ...
by mirta
Sun Jan 26, 2014 7:37 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: how to deal with painbody in relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 668

Re: how to deal with painbody in relationship

Hi rideforever, Thanks a lot for your reply. It helps me and I see it as the truth. He has been expressing his anger/doubts since the beginning. And it helps him totally. When he does, he feels so light. He is just someone else and then he tells me just the opposite: that it´s his painbody, that he ...
by mirta
Sat Jan 25, 2014 8:59 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: how to deal with painbody in relationship
Replies: 7
Views: 668

how to deal with painbody in relationship

Hello everyone, I love this forum :-) My boyfriend and me had great time together, we can be soooo happy together and laugh a lot. We have almost the same hobbys, humor, preferences... when it goes "goed" is just great. But we have periods (weeks, days) when his painbody is really actief and his min...
by mirta
Sun Oct 27, 2013 8:06 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Do I get it? ;-)
Replies: 5
Views: 711

Re: Do I get it? ;-)

My recommendation is to explore what it is like to not know a damn thing.
:-))) Love it...
by mirta
Sat Oct 26, 2013 7:18 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: Do I get it? ;-)
Replies: 5
Views: 711

Re: Do I get it? ;-)

Thanks a lot for the answer. This really helps me: You and I and everyone else has built up a history that arises from our memories - matters we have long held strong opinions on. But they are just conditioning, entrained over time. When such matters arise, assign new opinions of them such as 'that ...
by mirta
Fri Oct 25, 2013 8:03 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Do I get it? ;-)
Replies: 5
Views: 711

Do I get it? ;-)

Dear all, Today, my painbody started again. I guess it starts with a thought about my life not being "cool" enough. At this moment, there is not much that I have to do. Not many social relations. So I have a lot of free time to torture myself with my thoughts about how sad I am. I find lots of reaso...
by mirta
Tue Dec 11, 2012 6:47 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Envy, jealousy of a person
Replies: 3
Views: 1125

Re: Envy, jealousy of a person

Thanks a lot for your answers! I forgot that I posted the question. Today I was struggling with the same issue again and then I found your answers. My boyfriend is attracted to her, we talked about it. It took me sometime to accept this but at the same time, I also had to aknowledge I am also attrac...
by mirta
Sat Oct 06, 2012 6:30 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Envy, jealousy of a person
Replies: 3
Views: 1125

Envy, jealousy of a person

Dear people, I am struggling with some thougths of a girl I have an obsession with. She is friend of my boyfriend, he thinks she is a beautiful girl, nothing more and I trust him. Nevertheles I hate he likes her.. It makes me feel unsecure about myself, about my looks. Though I trust my boyfriend I ...