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by starting
Mon Nov 09, 2015 11:28 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Repetitive cycles - Life
Replies: 1
Views: 342

Repetitive cycles - Life

Hi :) I was wondering about how to break repetitive cycles in Life. When you do not like AND do not understand why these cycles are repetitive in your life. "lessons will be repeated until learned"? And if you do not know what do you have to learn...or if you think you have already learned the lesso...
by starting
Thu May 28, 2015 6:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?
Replies: 13
Views: 1159

Re: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?

thank you all Sometimes feelings are stronger and I start to think again...about everything. Sometimes the feelings are about good things, sometimes they make me feel in doubt about everything I've learned so far...but all is fine. ‘Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathin...
by starting
Thu May 14, 2015 3:49 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?
Replies: 13
Views: 1159

Re: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?

Or it is impossible to love someone without thinking about qualities you want for yourself as well? Reframing this slightly: Is it possible to love someone without wanting something from them? This something can be pretty much anything: qualities to learn from, things to admire, tenderness, affecti...
by starting
Thu May 14, 2015 3:45 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?
Replies: 13
Views: 1159

Re: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?

Secondly, there is the actual relationship going on between us now, however simple, it is going on. It is likely that the new relationship has no meaning in itself if we merely look at what we admire and wish for, or look to fulfill what we want. The actual relationship is now, whatever it consists...
by starting
Wed May 13, 2015 11:38 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?
Replies: 13
Views: 1159

Re: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?

thanks Imp What is the difference between A: relationship and B: the desire to become something which I see in the other? I'm relating to you now, just by writing something. I'm desiring something too. I do not admire you, that is not my thing. I desire to fulfill my desire to talk, to have a conver...
by starting
Wed May 13, 2015 7:31 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?
Replies: 13
Views: 1159

Everyone is our mirror. So, what do we want?

Hello all, :wink: I would like to hear from you about the mirror of relationships. These days I was thinking about it and in fact my relationships, and here I mean with friends or romantic relationships, were always with persons who I admire or with persons presenting some behavior I would like to h...
by starting
Sun Oct 26, 2014 8:54 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: What do we deserve?
Replies: 9
Views: 650

Re: What do we deserve?

Why build expectations at all ? Any expectation you have is the seed for future disappointment, creating time (and suffering) ... so why not remain with 'what is' ? ... and stay quiet ... in this present moment ... Whatever we think at the bed of our thoughts - those thoughts that carry the most in...
by starting
Thu Oct 23, 2014 5:15 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: What do we deserve?
Replies: 9
Views: 650

What do we deserve?

Hi all,

In the past, before everything I learned this year…I thought I deserved a situation and it did not happen.
So I am thinking ... Is it right to think we deserve something?
by starting
Thu Oct 02, 2014 4:50 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Leave the situation - ET
Replies: 5
Views: 601

Re: Leave the situation - ET

If you can't leave or accept, then change it would be best I think. . Hi dijmart, I think limit contact will be the solution...maybe...I believe she will understand one day... Have you clearly identified what exactly hurts you in the behaviour of this person ? ... and then expressed it clearly and ...
by starting
Wed Oct 01, 2014 7:35 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Leave the situation - ET
Replies: 5
Views: 601

Leave the situation - ET

Hello :) “When you complain, you make yourself a victim – Leave the situation, change the situation or accept it – All else is madness” I am trying to apply this quote from ET in my life and a new situation happened and I am trying to see this as a test…maybe to check if I am doing it right? :D The ...
by starting
Sat Jul 26, 2014 8:38 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: the key is the communication
Replies: 4
Views: 482

Re: the key is the communication

Great quotes, thank you Starting. :wink: :D Yes, same for me, I also discovered this excellent book on this forum (thanks to Jen and Clouded :) ) ... did you read the Fifth Agreement, also very good - can be read for free - but not downloaded - on scribd here : http://fr.scribd.com/doc/154466462/Th...
by starting
Sat Jul 26, 2014 4:49 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: the key is the communication
Replies: 4
Views: 482

the key is the communication

Hello all, You probably already know about the book The Four Agreements - D.Miguel Ruiz, and some people here had already discussed about this book. By the way I really apreciate it. I ve learned so much with you all and I think this is one of the best lessons for me: This is helping me so much in m...
by starting
Sun May 25, 2014 4:40 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: This I know
Replies: 129
Views: 4352

Re: This I know

Hi all, What do I know for certain? Nothing :) What can I speculate on? the energy and the capacity we have to change our journey based on our actions and conciousness What am I contemplating these days? to love and to be grateful for everything How has life changed? Seeing things from a different p...
by starting
Tue Apr 29, 2014 6:23 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: End of Suffering??
Replies: 119
Views: 4479

Re: End of Suffering??

Hi all, I would like to show you a text talking about the book: Buddha mind, Buddha body: walking toward enlightenment, by Thich Nhat Hanh About suffering Inclusiveness - “But whether we suffer a lot or a little, whether we suffer at all, depends on whether the capacity of our heart to accept and to...