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by Attention
Fri Mar 31, 2017 12:53 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: Everything reminds me of "her"
Replies: 3
Views: 450

Re: Everything reminds me of "her"

You're grieving the loss of the relationship. It will take as long as it takes for her to get out of your head. How to speed up the process, or rather how to not keep it permanent. For me, it seems that this is never going to end, perhaps until I find somebody else, and this is not easy. In the pas...
by Attention
Wed Mar 29, 2017 1:07 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: Everything reminds me of "her"
Replies: 3
Views: 450

Everything reminds me of "her"

Two and half years ago, I got to know a girl and developed feelings for her but she wanted us to stay just friends. My feelings never gone. Lately, she decided to end this friendship, and this was also hard for me. One of the things that I'm struggling with is that she's always in my mind. We were t...
by Attention
Mon Mar 20, 2017 7:23 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I'm confused about my religion
Replies: 7
Views: 487

I'm confused about my religion

Hello In my childhood I was religious, but as I have started to grow up, my life was not good, I developed social anxiety, and my life situation in general was depressed. I began to ask, why this happens to me even that I'm good with god more than most of other people, so I started to question my re...
by Attention
Sat Jun 27, 2015 11:13 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: infatuation
Replies: 5
Views: 642

Re: infatuation

that's clearer. thank you again :)
by Attention
Sat Jun 27, 2015 10:07 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: infatuation
Replies: 5
Views: 642

Re: infatuation

yeah, the forces of nature are strong, eh. Volcano eruptions, tsunamis, exploding stars, feelings. We are a powerful instrument. At least it means there is life in you, that there is power in your feelings. Many are overtaken, somewhat, by their feelings and mentations, get depressed, anxious, obse...
by Attention
Sat Jun 27, 2015 5:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: infatuation
Replies: 5
Views: 642

infatuation

Hi :cry: I have a strong infatuation toward a Facebook friend, I know I'm just dealing with a mental image I've made for her, but the feelings are so strong, Usually, I can observe and feel some subtle fearful emotions. But this craving I just can't, it easily takes me over. I just can't stop thinki...
by Attention
Mon May 26, 2014 9:45 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?
Replies: 30
Views: 3738

Re: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?

peas wrote:I'll be chatting with him soon ;-)

Can you describe the anxiety for us?
any news sir?
by Attention
Mon May 26, 2014 9:42 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?
Replies: 30
Views: 3738

Re: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?

gavra wrote:I found this on youtube, it might be helpful https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AO3wRY9lWSk
Yes, i've already watch it and found it helpful. but the thoughts, feelings and behaviors of Social Anxiety are hard to observe, so i hope to see something more specific.
by Attention
Sun May 11, 2014 1:04 am
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: my painbody has been triggered
Replies: 11
Views: 1769

Re: my painbody has been triggered

davemill wrote: Some weeks have passed. Are you able to be more present today?
yes i do. of course the mind still doesn't stop speaking, but i can operate and work or study. some small negative feelings i can surrender to and feel them. things are better now, thank you :)
by Attention
Sat May 03, 2014 8:34 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?
Replies: 30
Views: 3738

Re: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?

Thanks for this interesting link. Well I would say that 'social anxiety' is common to all persons at one level or another ... who is not afraid to speak (or sing) in front of a public ? We fear the look of others, their opinion about us, especially those near to us ... thanks for the quotes :) i un...
by Attention
Thu May 01, 2014 2:06 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?
Replies: 30
Views: 3738

Re: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?

thank you very much :)

https://socialanxietyinstitute.org/livi ... al-anxiety

maybe this article is the best in describing how social anxiety feels like. it written by dr. tomas richard, he claims that he had suffered from social anxiety disorder for 20 years.
by Attention
Wed Apr 30, 2014 12:49 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?
Replies: 30
Views: 3738

can you get eckhart tolle to talk about social anxiety?

is there any way to get mr. eckhart to talk about how to deal with social anxiety (and by that i don't mean shyness), it's so complicated condition, it needs specific advice!
by Attention
Wed Apr 30, 2014 12:43 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: my painbody has been triggered
Replies: 11
Views: 1769

Re: my painbody has been triggered

i did reply but it didn't show up!!!
by Attention
Mon Apr 28, 2014 12:19 am
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: my painbody has been triggered
Replies: 11
Views: 1769

Re: my painbody has been triggered

You talk as if it's your personal mind. It isn't. It is the collective mind of which you have inherited a small part. Consciously realise these things. It's not personal. None of what you experience is personal, even if it seems like that. What is your method for shifting your attention from thinki...
by Attention
Sat Apr 12, 2014 3:43 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: my painbody has been triggered
Replies: 11
Views: 1769

Re: my painbody has been triggered

The fact that you know that the painbody has been triggered means that there is enough space for awareness. That's a great start. Now, enter the now from there. Thank you. I am aware of things, but my mind still can beat me down. It requires great amount of alertness for me to enter the now. it's r...