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by presenttense
Thu Feb 11, 2016 1:34 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: dealing with rejection
Replies: 7
Views: 1190

Re: dealing with rejection

Hi dijmart the person is ignoring me and pretending does not know me...avoiding talking to me... Hi DavidB Im feeling sad because i like this person and i was writing about it. And i also wrote i was sad due to this behavior... i feel very bad about the situation...but i did nothing wrong... Im feel...
by presenttense
Tue Feb 09, 2016 2:41 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: dealing with rejection
Replies: 7
Views: 1190

dealing with rejection

How to deal with rejection? Better to stay quiet and pretend you never had contact with the person rejecting you or it is better to try to resolve the situation. Is the silence is the best option? I am Reading some texts about the patience and silence and how we need to be patient about all things h...
by presenttense
Sun Oct 18, 2015 3:30 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: thinking too much..bad things
Replies: 9
Views: 1624

Re: thinking too much..bad things

Hi DavidB,
I am trying to relax..sometimes I feel ok..but after some hours, for example, if I dont get what i am expecting...the feelings start to hurt again...imagining negative situations..
by presenttense
Sun Oct 18, 2015 3:25 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: thinking too much..bad things
Replies: 9
Views: 1624

Re: thinking too much..bad things

Hi ashley,
in my case..the problem would be my actions while I wait these thoughts subside...
by presenttense
Sun Oct 18, 2015 3:21 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: thinking too much..bad things
Replies: 9
Views: 1624

Re: thinking too much..bad things

Hi Imp and thank you.
Maybe we are (i am) misusing it...but i do not know how to control it. It just happens.
by presenttense
Sun Oct 18, 2015 3:11 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

Hi all,
I really need an advice if possible...thank you in advance.
by presenttense
Thu Oct 15, 2015 8:49 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: thinking too much..bad things
Replies: 9
Views: 1624

Re: thinking too much..bad things

Imagining bad things will happen to me.. imagining people do not like me...do not respect me. Sometimes i think it is real and only after months or years I can see that it was only my imagination. But due to the anxiety I talk a lot of things I should not talk...i feel a lot of confused feelings and...
by presenttense
Thu Oct 15, 2015 6:50 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: thinking too much..bad things
Replies: 9
Views: 1624

thinking too much..bad things

What should I do to stop thinking bad things?
everyday...I think my mind is sick.
by presenttense
Wed Oct 14, 2015 1:45 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

thank you First, it is not easy to "find" someone "free" where I live. And for years I was alone. Now, when I was not expecting anything, this guy came into my life...and I think Im in love now. I really do not know why I am so involved...maybe because he is not. I want because I do not have, maybe ...
by presenttense
Wed Sep 30, 2015 3:54 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

I know Caihong,

I was just trying to see it in a diferente way...

thank you.
by presenttense
Sat Sep 26, 2015 5:17 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

We had a conversation again...I mean, I was the only talking about what I feel again...he refuses to talk, he said he does not want to say something because things change.. I was waiting all these weeks, months... because I was just going with the flow. I was not expecting so much but now I am tired...
by presenttense
Wed Sep 16, 2015 6:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

I would like to continue the relationship. But he is so distant. I do not know if I must be quiet and wait... Im tired of fighting for relationships...it is always me...i am doing the best i can...everything to please the other person and i feel it means nothing to him. I feel like i am just another...
by presenttense
Tue Sep 15, 2015 6:47 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

Thank you dijmart. I do not know if he is practicing the silence because this is the best thing to do. Maybe because he is not sure about what to tell me or about his feelings for me...so I am not able to see if he is waiting for my decision to continue or to move on...or if he really does not know ...
by presenttense
Tue Sep 15, 2015 12:43 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Re: Doubts about this relationship

I just want to add that his behavior makes me feel sad and I told him...however I feel good when I am in his company...I think Im in love and he is just spending his free time with me...this is how I feel..and he does not want to talk about it.
by presenttense
Mon Sep 14, 2015 10:50 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Doubts about this relationship
Replies: 15
Views: 2056

Doubts about this relationship

Hello all, Im a little bit confused with a guy I met some months ago. We are in a relationship for about 4 months but I feel him distant a lot of times. It seems he avoid to go out with me, and he prefers to go out with his Family and friends. I asked a few times about it but he refuses to talk abou...