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by blissedandzen14
Wed Jul 09, 2014 8:33 pm
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: The power of the 'suicide' idea ...
Replies: 3
Views: 824

Re: The power of the 'suicide' idea ...

I wish my ego would commit suicide.
by blissedandzen14
Wed Jul 09, 2014 8:00 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations
Replies: 16
Views: 1025

Re: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations

dijmart wrote:Look up Byron Katie. She has a process she calls "The Work" that may help you with some of your issues. She has some Youtube videos also. I think if you do "the work" she suggests, you may find some relief mentally. :wink:
Thank you I will definitely check her out. Mental relief is what I want.
by blissedandzen14
Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:55 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations
Replies: 16
Views: 1025

Re: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations

I agree that there is a large degree of self pity and thought at play. Unfortunately I can't seem to step back from it enough to be objective and free from the pain it causes. Most of me believes the way I feel and my thoughts are true and in the background a very very small part of me believes thes...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jul 08, 2014 10:18 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations
Replies: 16
Views: 1025

Re: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations

Thanks for responding Phil. I love my children however, being around them is mostly hard work trying to raise them correctly, dealing with their problems, cooking, cleaning etc. I don't believe in romance or prince charming I just want companionship, another adult to talk to and do things I enjoy wi...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jul 08, 2014 6:30 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Advise on how to deal with hard life situations
Replies: 16
Views: 1025

Advise on how to deal with hard life situations

Hi All, I'm currently dealing with a few hard life situations and I'm a little confused on how to best deal with them. I want to learn how to start dealing with things in the right way so my life and my children's life can get better. I'm tired of living and feeling like this. I'm a single mother of...
by blissedandzen14
Wed Jun 25, 2014 3:22 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Does the Power of Now contradict dieting?
Replies: 12
Views: 1057

Re: Does the Power of Now contradict dieting?

You want to eat the cake now and in the moment it will be only pleasure. How does the Power of Now fit in with this? Should you not eat the cake because of the future goal? But that goal is in the future which doesn't exist. Only the now exists. I would say : listen to your body ... Does your body ...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jun 24, 2014 4:27 am
Forum: Pain and Suffering
Topic: my painbody has been triggered
Replies: 11
Views: 2118

Re: my painbody has been triggered

The fact that you know that the painbody has been triggered means that there is enough space for awareness. That's a great start. Now, enter the now from there. I also experience this. I'm at a point now where I recognize that my painbody has been triggered, sometimes I know what thoughts have caus...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jun 24, 2014 4:19 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Eckharts Method and Drugs
Replies: 5
Views: 583

Re: Eckharts Method and Drugs

I smoke and want to quit, I find it is a hindrance to my spiritual practice because It mildly distracts me (can't find the right word) from pain and stress which I believe I need to face and endure as much as possible to get better. I also drink alcohol about once a week in access. I see it also as ...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jun 24, 2014 3:09 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to release the pain
Replies: 11
Views: 1667

Re: how to release the pain

I am dealing with something vaguely similar. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago due to my inability to control my behaviors when I drink alcohol, which I have a problem with. When he broke up with me I spiraled into depression and developed insanely severe inner pain with feelings of empt...
by blissedandzen14
Tue Jun 24, 2014 3:07 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: how to release the pain
Replies: 11
Views: 1667

Re: how to release the pain

I am dealing with something vaguely similar. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago due to my inability to control my behaviors when I drink alcohol, which I have a problem with. When he broke up with me I spiraled into depression and developed insanely severe inner pain with feelings of empt...