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by Andreas
Sun Mar 27, 2016 2:06 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: New People
Replies: 2
Views: 828

Re: New People

Where are you from?
by Andreas
Sat Aug 22, 2015 1:18 pm
Forum: Personal Experiences
Topic: Contemplation
Replies: 7
Views: 1082

Re: Contemplation

Awsome! Thanks!
by Andreas
Sun May 31, 2015 2:46 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: GIRLS
Replies: 29
Views: 3952

Re: GIRLS

Like buying books? Handing over cash? Willing to pay the price? Won't like the proccess? Your world will never be the same again?

That sounds kind of scary... Hope you guys are not some human traffickers looking for customers here ;)...
by Andreas
Wed Jan 07, 2015 4:51 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Finding the right mindset: people are leaving me
Replies: 11
Views: 2018

Re: Finding the right mindset: people are leaving me

Wow, awesome reply, ekidhardt! I don't know if it is what is going on with the original poster and I'm surely not the right person to judge that... but, in any case, you just helped me understand some important things I did not realize before - so let me take that moment to thank you!
by Andreas
Tue Oct 28, 2014 3:40 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: I can´t get over her
Replies: 99
Views: 10227

Re: I can´t get over her

Are you really depressed? Like in the sense of clinically suffering from depression? If so, are you in treatment right now? In case you suspect something like this, you definitely should go see a therapist.

Or is it just because you still don't have a girlfriend?
by Andreas
Tue Sep 09, 2014 7:03 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Long and intricate story about projections
Replies: 3
Views: 1029

Re: Long and intricate story about projections

Hi Kiknossya, Thanks a lot for sharing your story. I could feel with you while reading it and I think this is something really many people can relate to. I guess most people, at one point in their life, have had a similar experience and there is so much to learn from your text - in particular becaus...
by Andreas
Sat Sep 06, 2014 8:16 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: Vulnerability
Replies: 20
Views: 1852

Re: Vulnerability

Wow, this is a very interesting topic. I like this in particular because I already had the same experiences/feeling/thoughts occasionally but, so far, never permantly but only for short durations of time - so I guess I could also call it "still exploring" as you named it. My guess is that it could a...
by Andreas
Wed Sep 03, 2014 4:41 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: I can´t get over her
Replies: 99
Views: 10227

Re: I can´t get over her

Ok, I think you're mixing two things here. In short, I'd say there are two things you want at the moment: - Getting a girl. - Becoming enlightened. Actually, both are independent from each other. You can have a girl without being enlightened and you can be enlightened without having a girl. However,...
by Andreas
Wed Sep 03, 2014 4:06 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men
Replies: 38
Views: 4671

Re: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men

Ok, let me give you a point of view by a man. Of course, this is just my personal view - and not representative for the whole male species ;). In a certain sense, I think both of you are right and, probably, you don't even disagree as much as it currently seems. The point is that it is not just blac...
by Andreas
Tue Aug 26, 2014 4:08 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men
Replies: 38
Views: 4671

Re: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men

Yes, you understood my point ;) I ask myself every day why the hell i am this way, so "different" from others. It's just nothing else than curiosity. Tell me once you figure it out - I'm still wondering the same sometimes ;). And i already did that "experiment" to have sex with a friend, 2 times......
by Andreas
Sat Aug 23, 2014 1:39 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men
Replies: 38
Views: 4671

Re: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men

Oh, well, if it feels good the way you live, then that's actually pretty cool ;). But ok, I think I can now understand what you mean. It feels right... but it's still confusing, because almost everybody else seems to want the opposite. That makes sense... it definitely can be confusing to see the ma...
by Andreas
Sat Aug 23, 2014 1:06 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: I can´t get over her
Replies: 99
Views: 10227

Re: I can´t get over her

Yeah, it was so weird. I wrote the first post and then after seeing my "story" on screen I realized that it was just that - a story. After reading through it again I felt like I was reading some other person´s writing and I was able to detach myself from it. Let me take the chance and thank you for...
by Andreas
Thu Aug 21, 2014 9:03 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Open relationships
Replies: 78
Views: 7156

Re: Open relationships

I've really enjoyed this whole conversation guys. You've bought up such interesting facts about different societal norms and everyone's view point is muchly loved and appreciated. Oh, by the way: Alex, will you tell us when you have talked to your husband (of course only if you feel comfortable wit...
by Andreas
Thu Aug 21, 2014 8:55 pm
Forum: Questions
Topic: What does it mean to be a man?
Replies: 10
Views: 1039

Re: What does it mean to be a man?

Interesting choice for a first post. Any particular experiences ;)?
by Andreas
Thu Aug 21, 2014 8:51 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men
Replies: 38
Views: 4671

Re: Love for freedom - i can't have relationships with men

Again one interesting post of yours, but i have to say this time i don't agree much. Of course you can't know me a lot. It's important now to say: i don't push away all "dear people" of my life, not at all, with my friends and best friends i'm like a little dog who jumps for happiness when i see th...