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by Robin
Wed Jun 23, 2010 12:11 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Interesting experience with ego
Replies: 1
Views: 146

Re: Interesting experience with ego

Wonderfull experience mate! I experienced the same in me and others. I even had the same church type background and dont miss at all the old religious self.

have a wonderfull time
enjoy the ride
yours
Robin
by Robin
Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:18 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: What's the most noticeable difference in enlightened people?
Replies: 18
Views: 872

Re: What's the most noticeable difference in enlightened people?

Personally you, what is the difference for you, if you rush into memories of your past, what was the difference for you? Is it silence in your head? How was it before? Constant noise? Constant thoughts? You couldn't stop producing thoughts? Finally, is there really a way to understand if someone is...
by Robin
Mon May 31, 2010 10:40 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: What if someone does not accept you as you are?
Replies: 10
Views: 1833

Re: What if someone does not accept you as you are?

Hi Kim, People dont like that we mess around with them dreaming, they simply dont want to wake up until they do. Then again how do we know it is the right time for him to wake up? When "we" need it? When "we" want it? Or when the right time has come for him? All in nature has its own time, even a li...
by Robin
Fri Feb 05, 2010 11:19 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: help please!
Replies: 6
Views: 982

Re: help please!

Jason thanks very much for your advice. I completely agree with everything you have said. I did realise all of what you said a while ago. and as i said, i thought i was achieving it. but it appears not completely. my only question to you would be, how does one implement everything you have said? do...
by Robin
Mon Jan 18, 2010 10:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: comparisons
Replies: 4
Views: 775

Re: comparisons

Dear Sasha123, you wrote: How is that not sad? How does a parent find peace and joy in their lives when one of their children is in emotional pain? Michele Obama quoted the saying "as a mother I am only as happy as my least happy child". That's a nice saying for the passing tribulations of childhood...
by Robin
Wed Jan 13, 2010 4:40 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: seeking negativity?
Replies: 5
Views: 325

Re: SEEKING NEGATIVITY?

Hi wonderfull, looks like you are on your way. You know already that the real you the "I am" is not pessimistic but at the same time you the, lets call it the "little me" is searching for drama. Why do you do that? Simply because you (the little me) gets something out of it. And it will continue unt...
by Robin
Tue Jan 12, 2010 10:19 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: comparisons
Replies: 4
Views: 775

Re: comparisons

Hello, This is the first time I have ever been in an internet discussion like this and I am 54 years old! I chose this group because The Power of Now has been the best guide that I have ever found. Please help me with something I am stuck on if you can. I have 2 sons, ages 21 and 24. My husband and...
by Robin
Tue Jan 12, 2010 11:14 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Homosexuality; bisexuality; heterosexuality; enlightenment
Replies: 3
Views: 733

Re: Homosexuality; bisexuality; heterosexuality; enlightenment

Hi you know the truth but your mind wants to keep you bussy with millions of thoughts. Be what you are and the rest takes care of itself. There is no right and wrong, men and woman. Being happy or not happy with a partner. If I would give a answer to your minds questions I only would strengthen it g...
by Robin
Mon Jan 11, 2010 4:33 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Can our marriage really work like this?
Replies: 8
Views: 1205

Re: Can our marriage really work like this?

I partly get what you are saying Robin, that ultimately it is our choice to stay in a marriage, relationship or any other situation. But this very idea gets the other person (husband, friend, co-worker etc,,) off the hook and free to continue hurting, cheating etc..If people who hurt others are not...
by Robin
Sat Jan 09, 2010 9:02 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Can our marriage really work like this?
Replies: 8
Views: 1205

Re: Can our marriage really work like this?

Hi, everyone! My husband just returned home after deciding he no longer want to be in a marital relationship with me after 10 years. He was gone for 2 months and in that time he found Eckhart's book "A New Earth" and has been living his life according to Eckhart's teachings. I am excited to have hi...
by Robin
Fri Jan 08, 2010 8:39 pm
Forum: Recommended Books
Topic: Favorite / Recommended Books
Replies: 50
Views: 20172

Re: Favorite / Recommended Books

1. Awareness by Anthony de Mello!
2. Emptiness Dancing by Adyashanti
3. The power of now and a new earth by eckhart tolle
4. The new testament / Bible and writings from Master Eckhard a christian mystic

cheers
Robin
by Robin
Fri Jan 08, 2010 4:36 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exposing the affair
Replies: 56
Views: 7069

Re: Exposing the affair

Robin, no matter how much we pretend not to have needs...we all do. YOu do , I do. We need something we do not seem to be able to find in ourselves and when we suffer we need it even more. But suffering also might bring us to the realization that if we do not find what we need in ourselves we will ...
by Robin
Fri Jan 08, 2010 3:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exposing the affair
Replies: 56
Views: 7069

Re: Exposing the affair

Hi Robin, thank you for your post. I hope all is well with you. Robin, if nothing matters, then how do we get help when we need it. I wish I were strong enough to go thru this alone, but believe me, I do question the value of therapy and doubt it will solve anything. As you said, there is nothing t...
by Robin
Fri Jan 08, 2010 2:05 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Exposing the affair
Replies: 56
Views: 7069

Re: Exposing the affair

Hello again, it has been a while since I posted. I have been slipping in and out of ego behaviour and unfortunately I am still hurting a lot. This is the ego life, sheer h^ll. I am still separated from my husband (H) who is still seeing the other woman (OW). He has been very cold to our son who cam...
by Robin
Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:45 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Its difficult to be in the now, when I'm stuck in the past..
Replies: 8
Views: 447

Re: Its difficult to be in the now, when I'm stuck in the past..

[quote="Tosh" ]Hi Ananda, I understand what you're saying, I have actually read Tolle and I plan to revisit the PON since A New Earth really touched me. But even though 'it' (as in I 'walked') happened in the past, the hurt I caused is probably still being felt by my children now. For example Christ...