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by Jayakanth
Mon Jun 18, 2012 8:42 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Im not sure whether i should heal this past I had.
Replies: 5
Views: 1306

Im not sure whether i should heal this past I had.

Hi. A few years back, I had a situation where I was forced to suicidal despair. Worst ever moment of my entire life. I was contemplating suicide because because I was afraid that something would happen to me. I will not tell what that event was. But I will describe what happened. First thing was a s...
by Jayakanth
Mon Jun 18, 2012 8:26 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.
Replies: 25
Views: 5557

Re: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.

Jayakanth, I'm not certain what your question is. I think you might need to reframe your question in way that might make more sense. So i feel 'needy' for a relationship. Rather than wanting a relationship, I am needing a relationship to fulfill myself. Eckhart does discuss this human need for a co...
by Jayakanth
Wed Jun 13, 2012 9:38 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Re: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Regarding dissolving the pain bodies, I'm having some trouble doing that especially for pain bodies that are very subtle. Like there are this mild sort of uncomfortable energy in my body. I realize that in order to dissolve it, u must 'become' the pain body rather than paying attention to it which ...
by Jayakanth
Wed Jun 06, 2012 11:14 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Re: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Regarding dissolving the pain bodies, I'm having some trouble doing that especially for pain bodies that are very subtle. Like there are this mild sort of uncomfortable energy in my body. I realize that in order to dissolve it, u must 'become' the pain body rather than paying attention to it which c...
by Jayakanth
Sun Jun 03, 2012 12:44 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.
Replies: 25
Views: 5557

Re: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.

Hi rideforever, Thanks for your reply. While I do agree with what you are saying, I would like to clarify myself. After doing introspection, I have realised that I am seeking a relationship to cover up my egoic problems such as lack of approval in my life, to impress others etc.. While feeling needy...
by Jayakanth
Sun Jun 03, 2012 10:21 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.
Replies: 25
Views: 5557

Re: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.

I am looking for advice from people who have identified all their inner problems/attachments/compulsions/fears and work on them. I have heard that you have to right them down and start reframing them or something like that. I don't know what method its called but Id like to hear from people who have...
by Jayakanth
Mon May 28, 2012 7:52 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.
Replies: 25
Views: 5557

Best way to change deep seated beliefs/attachments.

Hi guys, Suppose I have a deep seated need. Like if I believe that a relationship with someone will cure all my ego's problems. I feel needy and get hurt when i feel rejected. In order to change that belief, how do u go about that? How can u be present to that belief? Since it is a deep seated belie...
by Jayakanth
Fri May 25, 2012 8:44 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Re: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Tolle also talks about paying full attention to the pain body in order to dissolve it. Ive read from j krishnamurthi that u cannot identify with the emotion. U should become one with the emotion so that it can be dissolved. Using techniques of stability like anapasati you create a stable platform t...
by Jayakanth
Thu May 24, 2012 7:06 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Re: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Tolle talks about practicing presence as something that we can get better at. So, i guess its normal to look at it at a skill. But by looking at it that way, isnt it something that requires time to perfect? By thinking about it as skill that can be improved, we are definitely gonna look at it as a t...
by Jayakanth
Wed May 23, 2012 8:16 am
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Re: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Thanks for the reply. I wonder if the process requires any effort at all. From your post, it is evident that you intentionally went out to trigger pain and used external stimulation to surface the pain body. I was thinking more like triggering a memory that would bring up the pain body. From my unde...
by Jayakanth
Tue May 22, 2012 8:55 pm
Forum: General Eckhart Tolle Discussion
Topic: Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.
Replies: 12
Views: 3498

Best way to dissolve the all the pain bodies.

Hey guys, I am committed to transforming my life and have been practicing presence for a while now. I would like to ask some questions here in order to get a general direction of how I can achieve this. Tolle recommends not labeling the emotion when we are trying to dissolve it. My question is this....