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by Lazypoet
Mon Aug 18, 2014 6:20 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Open relationships
Replies: 78
Views: 9318

Re: Open relationships

After my boyfriend imposed the same question to me, quite rigorously, and I felt it was a question demanding an answer which corresponded with his, ego, so yeah there is ego in play here, I would say out of respect for your man leave him so he doesn't get hurt from this experiment. I know I got hurt...
by Lazypoet
Wed Aug 06, 2014 10:42 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Marina Abramovic
Replies: 2
Views: 367

Re: Marina Abramovic

Aaah, man, i'm so jealous! Wish I could go too.

Much love,

Christoffer
by Lazypoet
Tue Aug 05, 2014 2:12 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Marina Abramovic
Replies: 2
Views: 367

Marina Abramovic

Just wanted to advice everyone here of an artist that is extremely powerful and moving. Her name is Marina Abramovic, and her work is centered around presence and non-identifying with objects or time. I really really really want to see her show in London now, called 512 hours, but unfortunately I ha...
by Lazypoet
Thu Jul 24, 2014 5:06 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sugar
Replies: 22
Views: 1588

Re: Sugar

I saw half of the interview right now, with Adyashanti! What I loved was his grounded response, to use creativity in his speeches (not repeat himself), the acknowledgement of non-dualistic "extremists", also how chilled he seems. It's a bit comforting to have chilled out influences in my life. My cl...
by Lazypoet
Thu Jul 24, 2014 12:11 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sugar
Replies: 22
Views: 1588

Re: Sugar

I really like your post cause you don't take great offense in my criticism. Many people do. :) It's really long and I'm really minimal with words, so I don't know where to start really. I think a spiritual author or teacher can become lost in fame. In that way money can be dangerous. But I don't rea...
by Lazypoet
Tue Jul 22, 2014 11:33 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dementia
Replies: 4
Views: 538

Re: Dementia

Thank you for sharing this. It has given me a lot more strength.

Xxx

Christoffer
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 3:56 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: A stone in the chest
Replies: 4
Views: 431

Re: A stone in the chest

The french are all don juan's, no wonder they would say that ! they spend their life on the pillow ;) But all joking aside, i'm sure I wouldn't know half of what I know now had it not been for him :) Still it's such a heavy language. I'll have to sign up for a language study in the autumn, it will c...
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 3:01 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: A stone in the chest
Replies: 4
Views: 431

Re: A stone in the chest

The best way to learn a language is to listen? :D

(My boyfriend is french)

Love,

Christoffer
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 1:16 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: A stone in the chest
Replies: 4
Views: 431

A stone in the chest

So I get this strange feeling every time I try to do my french course, on my iPad. I get incredibly focused. I try to not make any mistakes when speaking french, and writing. And then it feels so HEAVY. I mean like the heaviest shit I've ever experienced. Like I'm NEVER getting better at this langua...
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 1:12 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Dementia
Replies: 4
Views: 538

Dementia

So my grandmother has it, and my other grandmother is developing it too. I love my grandmother. But I sense that she is becoming more and more strange. She starts lying more frequently and everything I tell her she has already "read in the newspaper" or "seen it on tv". She has a smart lurky smile, ...
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 1:07 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The stone wall of the academical tradition
Replies: 54
Views: 4647

Re: The stone wall of the academical tradition

I don't know how to express enthusiasm because I feel like I become feminine when I'm too excited ! So maybe I'm holding my excitement down a bit? When I'm with the ones that are closest to me I'm very eager and also very lazy sometimes. I don't care about how I am perceived then. But in public I ca...
by Lazypoet
Sun Jul 20, 2014 12:52 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sugar
Replies: 22
Views: 1588

Re: Sugar

Yes. I mean, one could make the point his seminars are very expensive. But then again why wouldn't they be, when he has sold so many books. I'm sure having a seminar with J.K. Rowling is expensive too. I guess we expect our spiritual authors to not like money. Because they are supposed to transcend ...
by Lazypoet
Sat Jul 19, 2014 11:47 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sugar
Replies: 22
Views: 1588

Re: Sugar

I don't know if it's because i'm scandinavian that i'm so soberingly sceptical to Hicks and their americana "tour bus". I've seen so many of these things before, briefly America is a market to be deceived. Now, considering that for a moment, that Esther and Jerry were what is often referred to as "s...
by Lazypoet
Sat Jul 19, 2014 10:59 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Sugar
Replies: 22
Views: 1588

Re: Sugar

Thank you, my mother always said "Christus offer" to me, which means christ's sacrifice in norwegian. She is not a christian, though. Heavy metal is very woven into the Norwegian culture. I guess it's a revival of the viking heritage! The national costumes are called "bunad" and they do look rather ...
by Lazypoet
Sat Jul 19, 2014 2:38 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The stone wall of the academical tradition
Replies: 54
Views: 4647

Re: The stone wall of the academical tradition

Wow....

Just had an a-ha moment like Oprah likes to call them.

I was actually not aware of my aching smiles being "fake".

But I mean well with them...

Isn't positive intention normal? Or is it strain?