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by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 10:00 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: How to deal with a depressed spouse?
Replies: 4
Views: 1697

Re: How to deal with a depressed spouse?

re: Recently, my husband has been suffering from some unexplained low phase. >> IMO, that is just not acceptable! Here he is to become a dad, so finding an "explanation" & a solution is CRITICAL - if only for the baby's sake. re: He has had several anxiety attacks, is feeling low, lost his appetite ...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 9:08 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Relationship Insecurity
Replies: 4
Views: 1683

Re: Relationship Insecurity

re: I have found out that relationships now bring out the pain body. I am feeling extremely insecure. I always feel like I am going to be cheated on and am very sensitive. When not in a relationship this is not the case and I seem to be "confident". >> This is something like Post traumatic stress di...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 8:28 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Reaction from life partner
Replies: 9
Views: 3537

Re: Reaction from life partner

Since starting to practice the principles my life partner of 17 years is saying things like "Your different!" (not in a good way) and "Your freaking me out". I can only respond from a psychological perspective. He's sees you as different now and it's freaking him out because your new behavior/perso...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 8:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Unrequited Love and Let Go
Replies: 4
Views: 1878

Re: Unrequited Love and Let Go

Hello: My response will have to come from studies and experiences in Codependency and 12 step Recovery work......... Eckhart Says - We fall for someone whose Pain body satisfies my Pain body... i.e. the pain bodies complement each other. Is rejection or unrequited love a mismatch of pain body? All I...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 7:42 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Physical Experience Releasing Anger
Replies: 8
Views: 2557

Re: Physical Experience Releasing Anger

Maybe I shouldn't say this here but your post brought up a lot of memories and feeling for me so........... Hi everyone. A part of my mindfullness practice and choosing to be present is to cease my habitual tendency to dwell on the past, or anger, or stories about what has happened or will happen. A...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 6:39 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Question about marriage
Replies: 17
Views: 4725

Re: Question about marriage

Hello everyone! I wanted to post here today because I recently read Eckhart Tolle's book (among others) and have become spiritual. I have never been spiritual my whole life, but was aised with very spiritual parents who I guess lead me to this path now that I am 24. I was always associated with for...
by jimmyrich
Tue Jul 30, 2013 6:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Dealing with lies and betrayal your thoughts please
Replies: 10
Views: 2095

Re: Dealing with lies and betrayal your thoughts please

Just before Christmas last year I was looking forward to marrying the man that I loved so much who I thought was kind, intelligent and honest. Just offering my own experience and solutions that I gained in 12 step recovery including Codependency & other groups. I was taught to examine my own behavi...
by jimmyrich
Mon Jul 29, 2013 10:36 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: 12 step recovery work
Replies: 1
Views: 899

12 step recovery work

Hi gang: Many years ago, I got so bad that I had to go for help so I ended up in 12 step groups like: ACOA, CODA, AL-ANON, AA, INCEST SURVIVORS and some others plus a little one on one therapy. Going to sharing meetings created an intense need to think more, read more, explain and understand more, u...
by jimmyrich
Mon Jul 29, 2013 9:41 am
Forum: Byron Katie
Topic: Byron Katie & Ramana
Replies: 4
Views: 4794

Re: Byron Katie & Ramana

Hello: I have read tons of Ramana Maharshi's works but nothing by Byron Katie (so far) and I am noticing more and more teachers saying and writing things like Ramana wrote/said so long ago. Maybe it's because much of Ramana's teachings were and are very simple yet also UNIVERSAL which is what I see ...