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by meetjoeblack
Tue Dec 16, 2014 7:06 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate
Replies: 41
Views: 13139

Re: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate

glad it worked out. I met a girl at a local pub after originally meeting in a coffee culture. it seemed like it was good but, it was just the anticipation of meeting and breaking barriers as strangers. That was the peak. As I said before, I was happy for the experience but, there was no chemistry. S...
by meetjoeblack
Tue Dec 16, 2014 2:40 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate
Replies: 41
Views: 13139

Re: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate

I'm shy too. It's something I've been gradually breaking out of for over 30 years :) It actually took me to learn about approaching. I am not thrilled by it but, I was less thrilled by not dating. Interestingly, "We should go out sometime" was a conditioned response. It was genuine. It was real. I ...
by meetjoeblack
Mon Dec 15, 2014 4:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate
Replies: 41
Views: 13139

Re: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate

I do not want to screw this up. I'm sure there are plenty with a whole lot more relationship experience than me. Actually, I'm not sure. I know there are. 8) However, this mentality is built around fear . I can identify that immediately and here is why. Number one, I've been there myself, even rece...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Dec 14, 2014 10:53 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: when something on a deeper level seems to resonate
Replies: 41
Views: 13139

when something on a deeper level seems to resonate

I met this girl I like. She made a very interesting first impression. I find her beautiful but, more importantly, she is nurturing, very ambitious, has a great personality, is genuine, and independent. I hear many women talk about being a independent woman and that feminist narrative about not needi...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 30, 2014 5:30 pm
Forum: Law of Attraction
Topic: Quantum physics and the Law of Attraction ...
Replies: 9
Views: 5068

Re: Quantum physics and the Law of Attraction ...

I heard LOA summed up as like attracts like. I think their is truth here but, this contradicts science (positive negative charges), opposites attracts etc. so, I am unsure. Not exactly, what LOA says is that you attract what you THINK (and believe) ... so if you fear something to happen, you attrac...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 30, 2014 5:08 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I took the red pill, woke up, and I see all the lies
Replies: 11
Views: 2359

Re: I took the red pill, woke up, and I see all the lies

After waking up, how do you connect with the world and those who are still asleep? The same way you would look at a soap opera on TV, with all the dramas, the conflicts, the sufferings, the cravings, the violence etc ... just enjoy the 'movie' ... and stay centered on 'what is' ... which is aware p...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 30, 2014 1:32 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: I took the red pill, woke up, and I see all the lies
Replies: 11
Views: 2359

I took the red pill, woke up, and I see all the lies

After Eckhart tolle and other spiritual teachers, I feel like I took the red pill, I woke up, and I see all the lies. I am not enlightened. I am far from it. If anything, I am pissed off. I sense it. I can feel it in my bones. I avoid alcohol, drugs, and a variety of people cause of it cause, it awa...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 30, 2014 1:17 am
Forum: Law of Attraction
Topic: Quantum physics and the Law of Attraction ...
Replies: 9
Views: 5068

Re: Quantum physics and the Law of Attraction ...

I heard LOA summed up as like attracts like. I think their is truth here but, this contradicts science (positive negative charges), opposites attracts etc. so, I am unsure. I suppose it is paradoxical. We have all heard the saying, women like bad boys. We all know how that ends lol I think we as hum...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 30, 2014 1:13 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: cravings during the holidays
Replies: 9
Views: 1817

Re: cravings during the holidays

So, it is the holiday season and my cravings are horrible. For starters, I am not nearly ready for Xmas, funds are not readily available, and my eating habits are poor. Anyone with similar experiences, could you please share, and help me get on the straight and narrow path? My goal is to clean up m...
by meetjoeblack
Tue Nov 25, 2014 4:56 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: cravings during the holidays
Replies: 9
Views: 1817

cravings during the holidays

So, it is the holiday season and my cravings are horrible. For starters, I am not nearly ready for Xmas, funds are not readily available, and my eating habits are poor. Anyone with similar experiences, could you please share, and help me get on the straight and narrow path? My goal is to clean up my...
by meetjoeblack
Mon Nov 24, 2014 7:23 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!
Replies: 6
Views: 3250

Re: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!

http://www.spiritualsingles.com That's the singles site I used to be on where I met the young lady I am currently seeing. I'm off the site now. But, it's a great site and I highly, highly recommend it. A lot of strange people on the spiritual site, you might find, but I'll be honest, strange is bec...
by meetjoeblack
Sun Nov 23, 2014 9:01 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!
Replies: 6
Views: 3250

Re: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!

People will be people. It's part of the game of life. The ego perspective is a limited perspective, but it exists. Therefore, it is perfectly valid. If people want to enhance the concept of separation by delving into gender stereotypes, then let them. It's all good brother. We are here to experienc...
by meetjoeblack
Sat Nov 22, 2014 6:39 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!
Replies: 6
Views: 3250

Re: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!

Good to hear your story. I'll be honest with you. I watched the video you posted in the other thread of the woman in NYC and frankly, I saw nothing in the slightest bit wrong with it. Yeah, ok, some of the guys were a bit sleazy, but some of them were just trying to make conversation with her. What...
by meetjoeblack
Fri Nov 21, 2014 12:16 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!
Replies: 6
Views: 3250

romanticizing anticipation, reality, and fear!

I love this scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ope1tNwRNO4 I had a instant where I was out recently and met a beautiful woman. It came at an unfortunate time where, the nyc woman walks 10hr video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A), and it easily could put a young man in his head. I just...
by meetjoeblack
Thu Nov 20, 2014 7:54 am
Forum: Questions
Topic: psychosomatic illness and boulders or stones in my stream
Replies: 9
Views: 3206

Re: psychosomatic illness and boulders or stones in my strea

Onceler wrote:Happy to hear you're doing better, Joe.
Thanks. I am working on it.