A discussion community revolving around Eckhart Tolle but not limited to him
EnterZenFromThere wrote:Asking out every woman you meet sounds insane to me. If you wanted to be rich would you ask everyone you met for money?!
I am 23 ys old, never had a girlfriend, single and virgin all my life so far.
Enlightened2B wrote: I wouldn't listen to pick up artists. Most of them approach dating as a game as though picking up a girl is a prize.
Instead of trying to pick up girls, why not just start conversations with people as people, including men?
I notice there is more tension for me when approaching women, largely because of my beliefs. There are subtle thoughts going through my mind saying 'she probably thinks I'm trying to hit on her'. I just watch those thoughts and smile.
Forget about sex.
Enlightened2B wrote:You can start to come across as desperate and needy to women which is not exactly overly appealing either.
DylanDude wrote:Dude look up RSDTyler on youtube. He's like the eckhart tolle version of pick up. He has great advice and is very motivating.
Start meditating if you aren't already and start going out. Eckhart tolles advice on life from his books is also great advice.
Get present to the moment. Don't play a role and enjoy the process of meeting women. All easier said than done but if you keep at it you will improve, good luck!
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