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imago dei wrote:Can i change myself, do you think?? I want a more traditional relationship than the one we have, we meet 2-3-4 times a week and dont plan the future much. Im not that satisfied, i want to change, be more traditional but always being myself.
Enlightened2B wrote:Take a look at this link for this article and you can see if you can relate to any of these. Not saying this article is necessarily the 'be all/end all' to romantic relationships, but I find it to be a very good resource on true 'conscious/authentic relating'. I think you need to consider what your purpose is in entering one in the first place.
It just sounds like there is a lot of confusion and contradiction in your posts about what you want in your relationships versus what you already have.
Byron Katie has some good stuff on relationships as well.
Here's the link. Check it out.
dijmart wrote:Here are my thoughts, if deep down you do not want this, then eventually you will resent him for pushing you into it. Unless, of course, you decide it really is something you actually want, whether that's prior to moving in together or after the fact.
imago dei wrote: Btw some "friendly" suggestions would be even better i guess. For exemple what you experienced in your own skin ecc...
The truth is: meeting a partner 3-4 times a week is more than enough for me, but for my bf it seems to be vital to live together, it's the priority in his life, it seems. So, i want to make this compromise, im sure im able to do this. In 2 hours i'll be 30 and i dont think its a bad idea to try to get a family with a lovely man.
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