how to forget the past?

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how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:06 pm

souls souls, , please help...
there is a lot of sadness here, fifi got dumped 10 years ago, and every now and then fifi reverts back to it a lot. fifi made a mistake, fifi acted out, seeking approval. fifi lost heryself. fifi still long for this guy, fifi realize it was all fifi fault but fifi was trying to be what fifi thought he wanted fifi to be and fifi lost it trying to please.

13 fifi's later fifi longs

i have found space.
whats up y'all?
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:08 pm

in peace lies awareness
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:09 pm

wait,

in awareness lies peace of awreness
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:15 pm

unrequitted love.....
still wanting
still attached
dante knows
dante and me would make a double thumb
two thumbs to remember the pain
2 thumbs to move on
give me a push, someone

anyone for connection?
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:27 pm

i know you guys...

give me a hugggsy


love is something that touches deeply


touch me deeply
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:36 pm

i'm longing for love. the romantic kind. it does have his face on it, how do i escape this?

how did u escape this

sorry for being so silly
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby fifi » Fri May 08, 2015 10:54 pm

i believe i wont find love like that again.

when i think that, i react, i become sad, he was all i ever wanted.

i dont know what to do,

be well all of you and know well
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Re: how to forget the past?

Postby epiphany55 » Tue May 12, 2015 8:02 pm

Attachment to this degree always has the potential to cause immense suffering. It's not healthy.

You need to feel that you are a whole person (not a half in need of another half) before you go into a relationship.

You need to work on becoming less dependent on others, and other things, to make you content.

You will not forget the past, but you will come to realise that the past does not exist except in the form of thought. Once you see the past as thought, you'll know how little power it has over you.

And so what if you don't find love like that again? Why does love have to come from a sexual/intimate partner? There is love all around you if you choose to accept it.
Thought is the object, not the essence, of consciousness.
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