You realize you are the awareness in which Maire arises within. Maire's personality need not change for this realization to take place. Yes, socialization is often trivial, you can socialize or not. You are capable to do it or not, it's your choice. I love being alone and in quiet, but I'm very capable to be in a noisy environment with lots of people also.
You, awareness do not object to anything that appears within you. You as an "apparent" person have "preferences", but ultimately what appears is fine, it is what it is! Pleasure and pain will continue to happen to the apparent person, even if you know you are limitless, impersonal, nondual, ordinary awareness. You just know that nothing that happens can add or subtract anything from you, awareness, including socializing.
Take what you like and leave the rest.