for some time i am wondering what Advice Eckhart Tolle would give me. So now i am happy i found this forum and i hope that experienced Tolle Follower maybe are willing to give me some input.
I try to make it short so far.
After seven years i broke up with my boyfriend. We love each other deeply and have wonderful times together, but he was untruthful from time to time. Every time something happened with another girl (flirting, chatting, little times more..) it hurts me so much, i can not find the right words for it. Like Collapsing. So i go through horrible times from time to time. He is not a classical Ass-Cheater, he is just charming and girls always like to flirt with him. I think its a part of him (and sadly i am very sensitive). He dont wants to hurt me, and now he is at the point where he is saying that he can control this desires and is not in need of that ecxitement anymore.
But i am at the point where i am so afraid of maybe going through that pain again, that i rather leave the person i love. Even though he changed a lot the last years (from narcisstic tendenzies to calmness and growing spirituality etc)
Is it crazy to put fear over love?
should i just live in the moment and try just not to think about what could happen?
Do you have other thougts about this?
I am very happy in advance about every thougt of you