I think too it's important to 'be a light unto yourself' rather than always seeking answers in others; it's important to know what doesn't need to be known and what does need to be known, and sometimes simply to surrender to the not knowing.
Others tell there version, but you have your answers.
The surrender instead of trying to attain is the key.
When I come here and read, I am struck by the posts that are
answered from awareness and those that come from the ego.
They are very easy to discern.
Ego always states things with a "look at me" "pay attention to me" sort of tone, while awakened replys are soft certain and sure as they come from
a place that isn't of the mind and a place that doesn't need protecting.
There are both types of posters in this thread.